Some men still live in the fantasy world where they dream of being with a woman who hasn’t been with anyone else.
They want a ‘pure’ girl who hasn’t succumbed to the world of desires and sex and is only ready to be theirs.
The idea of a virgin excites older men because of several reasons and after being researched and studied, here are some of the reasons why older men prefer to be with virgin women.
1. They can be moulded
Older men believe they can mould women who are virgins according to their tastes and likes. They can groom the woman to believe that their purpose is to serve their husbands and only be with them. They also try to mould their beliefs and values.
2. Higher self-esteem
When men have sex with a virgin, they have a profound sense of pride that they were the woman’s ‘first.’ Their self-esteem shoots right up and they are proud of this feeling even if it is highly judgemental.
3. Jealousy and insecurities
Older men also look to have sex with virgin women because they want to feel less insecure. The idea of them sleeping with a woman who has sex with other men as well, disgusts them. So, they try to find women who haven’t been with anyone sexually and who can only tend to them.
4. Fetish of many
It may sound unbelievable, but some people do have a fetish for only having sex with virgins. It may seem weird but this is also related to relationships because a man may want to be with a woman who will only be with them and stay loyal. These men may look for long-term relationships and a partner who hasn’t been with anyone but them.
5. No chances of STDs!
Some older men also prefer to be with women who are virgins because there will be no chance of catching sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) like herpes, chlamydia, gonorrhoea etc. They won’t have to think twice about getting tested or being extra cautious about having sex with them.